It is because I am a father that I started this blog. A way to record memories, experiences thoughts, and emotions. I am forever grateful to my children, Sean, Ryne, Aubrey, Jacob, and Joshua for "making" me a father and allowing me the opportunity to participate in their amazing lives. Time flies....the oldest prepares to leave the nest. Me: "Where is your head about this big move?" Sean, "It is a good thing it is happening so fast..less time to over analyze and over think!" He truly has me in his blood as we are both over-analyzers. But what an amazing person he is. He has so many admirable traits (and a few not so admirable traits!!) I find myself reflecting on his journey from my perspective. Good student, great son and brother. His college experience transformed him into a man. He grew in his independence, took care of his business and experienced college at Iowa State University the way it is to be done. I sent him off 5 years ago with my aforementioned advice, "work hard, play hard!" He did just that as a fraternity member, ATO, university leader and scholar. Following graduation he has had an ever too typical experience. Paid internship with the Beloit Snappers, a Minnesota Twins affiliate. A few months off between November and January. He had "a cup of coffee" with the Lake County Fielders, and then a frustrating 3 months culminating with taking a job that would provide some income and structure. Prayers were then answered..he was offered and accepted a job with the Myrtle Beach Pelicans, a Texas Rangers Class A team. CELEBRATE PELICANS!! He is leaving in 14 hours of this posting. I am so proud, so excited and relieved. But, I am also anxious. A father is lucky to have a son who teaches him as much as Sean has taught me! Thoughtful decisions at a young age, trust in others, patience and a stick-to-it determination. I know he has learned some things from me, those are the things I admire and have learned from him. Fortunately, I will be able to write similar posts as each of my children grow-up as they have all taught me something. For today, Sean, I love you and admire you more than ever. You are strong, brilliant and loved. I will miss you as a son and a friend but remember, no matter where you lay your head, I am your father and I will always be wherever you are, forever. And by the way,
WORK HARD, PLAY HARD son! I love you!
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